Men dating teens
They also know that the relationship is wrong, which is why they mostly remain secretive to avoid the consequences such as jail time and being labeled as a sex offender.
Such relationships, all in all, are completely unhealthy and can be very damaging to some girl’s minds and can even lead to them having relationships issues in the future.
Aware of that vulnerability, men have no problem taking advantage of girls.
The girl will falsely believe that since she is “mature,” she is in control of herself and her actions when involved in a relationship with a man considerably older than her. The older man will begin to notice the stark contrast between his life and his partner’s life and believe that because she is younger, he will begin to view her behaviors as childish.
For example, in the summer of 2017, one story that ignited heated debate was when a Spanish man was filmed in Chengdu. Not to be outdone, “Do Chinese women obsess over foreign men? Google “Chinese girls are easy” and you’ll find much more.
The old age phrase “age is but a number” is unbelievably wrong once things are put into perspective.
It sometimes feels like the fact that an interracial relationship can exist at all is a reason for anger.
“BBC actually made a video on how to date Chinese girls, netizens outraged,” reads a headline on a piece in Sina.
The older man can also make the girl feel inferior for discussing her “childish” problems, even belittling her for being childish, even though she is, in fact, children.
This kind of emotional manipulation can lead the girl to try to drastically change herself to fit the expectations of the man, including alienating herself from her friends and family.
Never mind that the BBC video in question is actually titled “How Not To Date A Chinese Girl,” and is a satirical take on, well, what white men should not do if they want to date a Chinese girl.