Dating women from all over the world

These men may further be regarded as "just friends"—expected to pay for all of the costs of a relationship, without the physical and intimate benefits (see here).

In contrast, if men shun social pressures to be "nice" and follow what is biologically attractive, they have a higher likelihood of getting "sex partners".

In a previous article, I put forward the notion that individuals were not "afraid" to date—rather they simply did not have sufficient incentive to do so (see here).

When punishments weight more heavily, people avoid those same behaviors.

Essentially, many men report that they find modern dating a primarily punishing affair.

Furthermore, they do so in a situation where women's own social instruction may reduce the very characteristics that many of these men desire.

Given that, many men sit on the couch, plug in a video game, and opt out—just as Behaviorism and Skinner might predict.

Men successful with this strategy attempt to find an honest and faithful partner, who respects their needs, and is grateful for their contributions (for more, see here, here, and here).