Dating awkward pause
Your effectiveness as a speaker is directly related to your ability to invoke emotion and interest through the use of non-verbal communication.Your listeners judge you and your message based on what they see as well as what they hear.I mean, all of his sexual needs are completely met by you, right? And all of his emotional needs are met by you, so it can’t be that he enjoys the ego boost of feeling desired by a woman…My point in all this is that if you believe that you’re meeting all his needs, you will be blind to areas where the relationship needs to grow.
The fact is, this whole pattern of people projecting a fantasy version of someone onto the actual person is ludicrous.
But I can’t think of a time where the insecurity of one partner inspired a change in the other partner.
Especially when the insecure partner isn’t willing to walk away regardless of whether or not they get what they want.
Whether your purpose is to inform, persuade, entertain, motivate or inspire, your body language and the personality you project must be appropriate to what you say.
As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “What you are speaks so loudly that I cannot hear what you say.” So be sure your appearance, posture and attire is appropriate as well.
Do you know what’s at the core of why women put up with behavior they find unacceptable? The reality of it is that if you want to mentally and emotionally be in a place where you have any say in your relationship, you have to diminish your fear of loss.